是泪滴结束每段感情
要时间忘记想忘记
其实埋藏在心里
雨滴结束每个冬季
晒不干过去就面对你
喜怒哀乐的回忆
听天空晴朗开始好天气
别在忧郁让心情也天晴
失恋的人就换季脱下过期爱情
突醒的眼里看见发亮的自己哦~多美丽
受伤的人就换季春夏秋冬轮替
总有你的美景等待下一季下一次天晴
Random thoughts just flashed across my mind while listening to this song. The song is about the failure in relationship is like changing of the 4 seasons. Well then I thought about friendships.
How long or strong can true friendship last? Can the strong bonds between one another last? Will my buddies remember me 10 or 20 years down the road? Will distance be an obstacle to challenge the friendships?
I felt no matter how hard you try to maintain the bond, it will not be possible for every single friendships that I've made in the past years. Yes, some friendships are still the same, strong as before. It's possible due to the fact that the other party and me made a point in trying to keep it going :)
For some cases, it is just not the same anymore. The change from the past and now is really drastic. That particular someone is like a stranger, the someone who used to be so close seems to have drift away. I no longer know who you are. The change seems permanent. The distance is so faraway and there is an invisible wall between us. Sometimes, words are just meaningless and empty when not proven by actions.
Hoping that you will turn back. However I think it is quite impossible, the chances are minimal. All I can see is just a vague back view that is walking further and further. I've lost count of the number of steps taken. The tripping stone. Whatever, hope this someone will do well in life.
Enter is hard.
Exit is rather easy.
Agree or disagree?
It is assured that entering one's life, gaining the trust and becoming a real friend is hard. It takes quite some time. On the other hand, exit can be within split second. If entering is easy, one will then have tons and countless true friends & buddies that you can confide and trust in life. For me, it is quite true that entering is a tedious process.
Maybe only someone will know who I am talking about.
No idea of what the above paragraph is?
Or you think you're not that someone? Just ignore. =)
I'm definitely not feeling emotional or upset when I type this post. =]
Friendships can be so vulnerable.
But I still believe that real friendships exist.
How long or strong can true friendship last? Can the strong bonds between one another last? Will my buddies remember me 10 or 20 years down the road? Will distance be an obstacle to challenge the friendships?
I felt no matter how hard you try to maintain the bond, it will not be possible for every single friendships that I've made in the past years. Yes, some friendships are still the same, strong as before. It's possible due to the fact that the other party and me made a point in trying to keep it going :)
For some cases, it is just not the same anymore. The change from the past and now is really drastic. That particular someone is like a stranger, the someone who used to be so close seems to have drift away. I no longer know who you are. The change seems permanent. The distance is so faraway and there is an invisible wall between us. Sometimes, words are just meaningless and empty when not proven by actions.
Hoping that you will turn back. However I think it is quite impossible, the chances are minimal. All I can see is just a vague back view that is walking further and further. I've lost count of the number of steps taken. The tripping stone. Whatever, hope this someone will do well in life.
Enter is hard.
Exit is rather easy.
Agree or disagree?
It is assured that entering one's life, gaining the trust and becoming a real friend is hard. It takes quite some time. On the other hand, exit can be within split second. If entering is easy, one will then have tons and countless true friends & buddies that you can confide and trust in life. For me, it is quite true that entering is a tedious process.
Maybe only someone will know who I am talking about.
No idea of what the above paragraph is?
Or you think you're not that someone? Just ignore. =)
I'm definitely not feeling emotional or upset when I type this post. =]
Friendships can be so vulnerable.
But I still believe that real friendships exist.
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