Change

The good old days where everyone stays true to one another.

It's amazing how some friends still stay close together but some are becoming strangers gradually.

People do change over time.

Hiding behind a facade.

The very least, don't ever use harsh words to hurt your friends because true friends wouldn't do that.

Stay real, stay true.

Just for the man

FUN JOY & LAUGHTER on a beautiful sunday

ShuMAN!

Remember take good care of yourself ok. :D
& also create facebook uhhh so we can keep in touch also.

See ya in 5months time!
Misses ♥

oh, it's 090909! A special day with this set of no that you will never see again this lifetime!

Happy Bday to QUEKYINGJIE!

Sometimes love just ain't enough

but you you & you made me felt so ♥ed and blessed to have you in life.

to you:

I'm really sorry about the attitude and mind reading we've undergone for these 2 days. But conflicts or rather through such situations only when we realised we actually care about one another and strengthen the bonds between us.

Besties are always besties.

to you, you & you:

thanks for the dinner @ New York New York & company.

thanks for cheering me up on phone & check if I'm ok & the lovely card w those words. & wanting to finish the cold porridge & the flooded w mni pearls bbtea. I really appreciate your efforts. *Touched*

thanks for the beautiful roses & came over despite it was rather late.

I'm sorry for the April's Fool Joke but you all know it's harmless.



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Hanged around in the KTV singing songs & drinking till wee hours, 3plus in the morning. It was pure madness when I woke up 7 in the morning for work. Cabbed & stayed over. Talked till we all went into deep sleep before waking up for IS enrolment.

Brunch @ the coffee shop nearby. Dim Sum & Prata then spare ribs soup. Mahjong was addictive but wonder how come someone can be yawning away!~

Dropped dead after returning home. Crystal Jade & 记得吃 for dinner w dumbo. Bloated ttm. Grabbed some stuff from Xtra and a tub of Lime YAMI Yogurt.

More updates when I have the time~ Tooooodles~

友。情

Friends?

Respect?


Linked them together.


Idk why it made me feel so upset. However I am pissed and perhaps disappointed with people failing to understand the meaning of the two terms above. There's always a limit. Ain't friends supposed to treat each other nice & with d respect. How do you want me to react when the a-t-t-i-t-u-d-e or t-r-e-a-t-m-e-n-t i received make me feel otherwise. Sometimes it just made me feel as though you don't regard me as a friend. Maybe it's just you and your character. Seriously I will really appreciate it if you could change a lil. MAYBE I am just too sensitive, i admit i can be emotional.

If you understand the above msg, it's for you. If not, forget about it!
I am not kicking a fuss up or anything.
Just rantings and getting rid of the moodiness in me.

I guess only niqiem understand how I really felt.

Peace out!

To the 4th girl from the left & the most impt woman in my life

HAPPY 18th sweet manman

stay sweet & strong always!~

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妈妈：
生日快乐！^^

glad she like the cake&perfume.
the thankyou just sound so nice&heartwarming.

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this made me smile! =DD

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updates on chinesegarden trip & manman's celebration when i'm freed from my presentations&exec.summary&assignments. (:

i need a ......................... break.

imetamrnicethatveryday.

To You

Z, I really appreciated your presence for the past one decade plus.
Amazed at how we got so closed over the past few years.
It feels just so comfortable and ease pouring out everything to you. The way we think is so alike!

Like what we say; awkwardness doesn't exist when it's just down to the 2 of us. I believe you'll be one who will still be a part of me 10/20 years down the road!

I felt so touched when you said you do mention me in front of others. Just felt very proud when you mention "我不只有一个，还有多一个十年多的朋友！”=)

你的重视让我为我们之间的友情感到很骄傲
非常庆幸在过去的十一年有你！

That made my day, seriously.

You will always be a part of me! =D

Loves,

X

换季

是泪滴结束每段感情
要时间忘记想忘记
其实埋藏在心里
雨滴结束每个冬季
晒不干过去就面对你
喜怒哀乐的回忆
听天空晴朗开始好天气
别在忧郁让心情也天晴
失恋的人就换季脱下过期爱情
突醒的眼里看见发亮的自己哦~多美丽
受伤的人就换季春夏秋冬轮替
总有你的美景等待下一季下一次天晴

Random thoughts just flashed across my mind while listening to this song. The song is about the failure in relationship is like changing of the 4 seasons. Well then I thought about friendships.

How long or strong can true friendship last? Can the strong bonds between one another last? Will my buddies remember me 10 or 20 years down the road? Will distance be an obstacle to challenge the friendships?

I felt no matter how hard you try to maintain the bond, it will not be possible for every single friendships that I've made in the past years. Yes, some friendships are still the same, strong as before. It's possible due to the fact that the other party and me made a point in trying to keep it going :)

For some cases, it is just not the same anymore. The change from the past and now is really drastic. That particular someone is like a stranger, the someone who used to be so close seems to have drift away. I no longer know who you are. The change seems permanent. The distance is so faraway and there is an invisible wall between us. Sometimes, words are just meaningless and empty when not proven by actions.

Hoping that you will turn back. However I think it is quite impossible, the chances are minimal. All I can see is just a vague back view that is walking further and further. I've lost count of the number of steps taken. The tripping stone. Whatever, hope this someone will do well in life.

Enter is hard.
Exit is rather easy.
Agree or disagree?

It is assured that entering one's life, gaining the trust and becoming a real friend is hard. It takes quite some time. On the other hand, exit can be within split second. If entering is easy, one will then have tons and countless true friends & buddies that you can confide and trust in life. For me, it is quite true that entering is a tedious process.

Maybe only someone will know who I am talking about.
No idea of what the above paragraph is?
Or you think you're not that someone? Just ignore. =)

I'm definitely not feeling emotional or upset when I type this post. =]

Friendships can be so vulnerable.
But I still believe that real friendships exist.